Cleaning up those “I’ll be happy when” thoughts

Cleaning up those “I’ll be happy when” thoughts

Last week I introduced the  “I’ll be happy when…” scenario (it’s here if you want to catch up). And, as I mentioned, the first step to almost any change is awareness … awareness of what we are thinking. What does this have to do with happiness, I hear you...
I’ll be happy when…

I’ll be happy when…

Have you ever said, “I’ll be happy when…”? I realised I was saying “I’ll be happy when I have 20 clients” And to be honest, I’m sure you have said it too. Just like a friend the other day who was saying; I’ll be...
Searching For Silver Linings?

Searching For Silver Linings?

Do you go straight into searching for silver linings… or the opposite, always reeling in the negativity unable to get out? Have you ever had something ‘bad’ happen and jumped right into finding the silver lining? No? Maybe that’s just me? It...
14 Ways To Increase Self-Esteem 

14 Ways To Increase Self-Esteem 

14 ways to boost your self-esteem and why it’s important  Are you familiar with low self-esteem like I used to be? It’s having pity parties; it’s feeling bad; a lot of the time, for no apparent reason! It is not fun. Low self-esteem can be...